There is a strange attitude and feeling that one is not yet in real life. For the time being, one is doing this or that, but wether it is a relationship with a woman [or a man] or a job, it is not yet what is really wanted. And there is always this fantasy that sometime in the future, the real thing will come about. The one thing dreaded throughout by such a a type of man [or woman] is to be bound to anything whatever. There is a terrific fear of being pinned down, of entering space and time completely, and of being the unique human that one is.
– Marie-Louise von Franz
You ready to enter space and time completely? I am. It’s time.